Love, Actually?

'God gave us two ears to hear, two eyes to see and two hands to hold. But why did 

God give us only one heart? Because he wants us to find the other one.'

 'Is the word "love" important?

I don't know but for me, you are more important.

Do you know why?

Because how can I say "I love you" if you're not here.'

'No matter how many times I get hurt because of you, I won't leave you. Because 

even if I have a hundred reasons to leave you, I'll look for that one reason to fight for 

you.'

Quotes from http://www.1-love-quotes.com/

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So what is love actually? As is said about love in the movie Captain Corelli's Mandolin,

"When you fall in love, it is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake, and then it subsides. And when it subsides, you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots are become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the desire to mate every second of the day. It is not lying awake at night imagining that he is kissing every part of your body. No... don't blush. I am telling you some truths. For that is just being in love; which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over, when being in love has burned away... (Iannis to Pelagia)"  

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Love, definitely, as Shakespeare said  is a smoke risen from fumes of sighs. It is a beautiful feeling, one that cannot be expressed in words, something that every person defines in his own way. No one can explain what it is, is it the fights, the arguments? The crazyness? The laughs, the tears? I don't know. What I'm trying to say is love does happen, and it just can be felt, not expressed verbally. When you fall in love, it seems to last till eternity, the person you love becomes the 'only one' you could ever imagine yourself to be with. After a while, it sometimes happens, the 'excitement', the 'good feeling' starts to die out and you realize that you don't love your 'eternal partner' that much. THE DOUBT SETS IN.

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You love that person, but you don't. You care for her too much to leave her and break her heart. But still, you don't want to be with her, you cannot be with her. There is love, but you can't feel it. You have to try to love her. LOVE AIN'T TRYING. So, what is wrong?? Was it love??Or was it just a strong urge to have someone that you overlooked the facts. And now it is playing back on you. It is as if you made yourself fall in love for just sake of it. You want to free but you can't hurt her. You have to end  it because your inner self is not allowing you to do injustice to your partner. But then HOW DO YOU LEAVE A PERSON YOU NO MORE LOVE, AS YOU "LOVE" HIM OR HER TOO MUCH?? That is one thing that has been continuously been playing in my mind, and as far as I see, there is no copy book solution to it. Every time it is different, and every way to deal a breakup is unique,as every relationship is unique, IT HURTS THOUGH, TO HAVE A BREAKUP, BUT IT IS FAR BETTER THAN SPOILING EACH OTHER'S LIFE AND FEELINGS.That is because you cannot love someone until you really LOVE him or her.Here's a little poem to sum everything up....

I saw you, I loved you,

I touched you, I hugged you,

We laughed, We cried,

My heart was on your side,

It was madness,

It was LOVE,

I felt it all the more,

But I don't know,

It is loosing its shine how,

I love u, so how do I tell you,

That all those things,

I no more feel, I no more do,

You have a soft heart,

that can not be shattered,

Coz you, your heart still matters,

But It's not you, It's ME,

I want to move to be free,

I'm sorry Baby, I do love you,

But for the good, I can't be with you.

I know it is real hard, as you care, and hurting someone you care is difficult. But sometimes in life, for the genuinity of feelings, of situations, it is necessary to overlook the pain it might cause, because as they say 'Love Happens only Once'...so it has to be true, ain't it??

GO WALK IN THE WILDERNESS PEOPLE!!! 

SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT....

Exams, Exams, Exams…..yeah I had left the blogging world for a month voluntarily, so that I could write answers in the exams as long as my blog posts..!! But of course my “Posts” on the answer sheets didn’t invite the evaluator to take a walk in the wilderness...Hehehe.

Anyways, as I was wondering about what my new blog post would be about, I happened to find an old collection of poems that I wrote quite some time ago. Let me tell you that I write poems as well, when I am on an emotional roller coaster. Most of the times, call it a coincidence, my poetic creations are about life.

So, without any more ‘how I became a poet’, I have put up one of my very first poems, entitled “Life- A Philosophy”. Here it goes……

The life is not a bundle of roses always,

There are happy and a pinch of sad days,

It is musical at times,

And at full brightness it shines...

Pouring colors into itself bold,

Soaring high as it tells the story untold...

But then it shows some colors contrast,

Making u wish it had gone fast...

It gives u some tough encounters,

Leaving you High and dry,

When having someone with you mattered...

It tests you hard, it tests you bad,

In a way of dreams sad...

But in the end it’s your life

That proves its worth and takes your side,

It says i am your best friend,

I won’t leave you till I myself end....

It makes you realize,

That it comes hard at you

Only to make you more wise,

To make you know its value, it’s worth

And then to finally to make you

The happiest person on this Earth...

Liked it, didn’t you?? I know I know…..thanks a lot! Anyways, my coming blog posts would be more or less around my poems (I thought why not let you show my poetic bend as well).

GO WALK IN THE WILDERNESS PEOPLE..!!!